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June 28, 2012

The Snarky Voice in Your Head

Via Alan Henry at Lifehacker:

X-rayThere's a difference between being occasionally sarcastic and a little derisive in your head, but when negativity becomes your default reaction, you have a problem. You may have had a wake-up moment, much like Anna Holmes, founding editor of Jezebel, had when she realized she was sneering at someone for no reason other than that the person was happy. Here's what she said:

Just rolled my eyes at a woman skipping happily across 42nd Street. Then I realized I'M the asshole.

— Anna Holmes (@AnnaHolmes) May 31, 2012

How about a quick check. Do you:

  • Roll your eyes at every "hipster" who, by most accounts, is just a person trying (successfully or not) to dress fashionably?
  • Primarily complain about how horrible people/things are on Facebook/Twitter?
  • Get angrier every passing moment that you stand in line at the grocery store, or have to wait for your check to arrive at a restaurant?
  • Find you're constantly frustrated with coworkers who don't "get it?"
  • Comment angrily on blogs, videos, and other web sites (usually beginning with "ummm" and ending with "just saying?")
  • Feel like it's okay to be a complete jerk, as long as you're "witty" about it?

Sounding familiar? You may have a problem.

Posted by Zujaja Tauqeer at 06:48 AM | Permalink

Comments

Ironic that this article appears on a website that subscribes to Chomsky's hatred of pretty much every aspect of modern American life.

Posted by: Al | Jun 28, 2012 1:26:54 PM

And this is the problem with labeling things you don't like "snarky". The truth is "snarky" to those who prefer to be deluded.

Posted by: Olavi Valo | Jun 28, 2012 1:53:54 PM

Ummmm... this article is completely stupid. Just sayin'.

Posted by: Joe | Jun 28, 2012 5:15:31 PM

^ Touché. As long as you're being witty about it ;-)

Posted by: Zujaja | Jun 28, 2012 10:14:11 PM

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