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March 28, 2011

Malik

by Kelly Amis

Img035 Twelve years ago, during the last days of a Washington, D.C. summer, I met a tiny boy who left a big impression.

I was volunteering at a day-in-the-country event for low-income D.C. kids; Malik was one of many who had climbed on a bus that morning to spend a day chasing ducks, dipping his feet in a pool and eating lunch on a vast green lawn.

Malik had just turned five. He was ridiculously cute, with a round little head and huge dark-brown eyes. We hit it off, and at the end of the day the event director asked if I would be interested in becoming Malik’s “big buddy.” A short time later, it was official. We were buddies.

For the next few years, I spent two or three Sundays a month taking Malik, and usually his two sisters, all over the city, to parks, movies, the occasional heavily-negotiated museum. I had been a teacher and tutor before becoming Malik’s “big buddy,” but this program was less about academics and more about getting kids out of their neighborhood to have some fun and new experiences. 

I had never thought to visit Malik’s school or meet his teachers, and was angry with myself for not doing so when I learned that he was in a special education class at school. I only discovered this because he happened to show me his class photo: there were only five or six children in it (a regular class would have had 24 or more) and one of them had Down’s Syndrome.

I tried to hide my dismay from Malik. I knew the Washington, DC school district was notorious for over-identifying students—especially black boys—as “special ed” but it had never occurred to me that Malik might be one of them. Why was this perfectly intelligent and capable little boy in what appeared to be a special-education-only class?

Malik’s mother (who assumed the school was doing what was best for him) gave me permission to investigate and helped me set up a meeting with his teacher.

The teacher was not thrilled to see me. With a folder that was clearly Malik’s sitting on the table beside her, she told me with a straight face that she hadn’t been able to access his files. She was very sorry, but she wouldn’t be able to tell me what Malik’s disability was or when it was identified. However, I should feel confident that the school only had Malik’s best interests at heart.

As she spoke, a teacher’s aide pulled up a chair, grabbed the folder and started silently flipping through it.

Finally I got up to leave; the conversation was going nowhere. I thanked the teacher for her time while I mentally planned to contact the district’s Special Education Office. The aide then closed the file, looked up at me and said, “You're right.” Malik had never been identified with a disability.

Malik was transferred into a regular classroom the next week. The story doesn’t end there, unfortunately, but I am sharing only this first chapter as an example of how African-American boys are treated by our education system, including by being regularly and disproportionately shifted into “special ed” instead of being properly taught and held to the same expectations as their peers. (Read here and here for grim statistics.)

It was random chance that I met Malik and had enough experience working in schools to see the red flag waving from that photo. Many other black boys remain trapped by the lower expectations our system holds for them.

See how this translates to the international context with our breakdown of recent PISA reading scores:

PISA BY U.S. RACE & GENDER

Posted by Kelly Amis at 12:05 AM | Permalink

Comments

This is a moving story. Thank you for caring enough to help Malik. How is he now at 17 - what is he doing?

Posted by: uncleMonty | Mar 28, 2011 11:32:32 AM

Very moving story. I'm curious too - how's he doing? Wishing the best for him!

Posted by: Jonna | Mar 28, 2011 11:41:49 AM

Thank you so much. Unfortunately Malik died just before his ninth birthday. Hard to talk about.
There is a bit more about him on my website -- www.teached.org-- go to "about" and scroll down to the "Dedication." And I'm sure I'll write more about him here some day.....

Posted by: kamis | Mar 28, 2011 11:50:27 AM

So tragic, Kelly. Thanks for keeping his memory alive, and for all the good work you do!

Posted by: Abbas Raza | Mar 29, 2011 8:05:37 AM

Kelly, what a story. I am so sorry for the loss of Malik, and so moved and grateful that you were there for him. In a life that was nine years long, a big difference was made because of you.

For three decades, my mother taught in a notoriously bad middle school, one of the worst in the Southern city where we lived. She asked to be assigned teach there, so it wasn't mischance. I grew up hearing of the careless crimes of the school system against African American boys -- crimes of inattention and the failure to invest hope, and then the meta-crime: rationalizing it all away. In those days, pre-Special Ed for the most part, children who had not learned enough to leave the eighth grade were not passed into high school, but kept in the eighth grade until the age of 16, when it was normal for them to legally drop out of the system. So there were some students that my mother taught art -- her subject -- to, from the year they were nine until they were sixteen. She was a popular and effective teacher; nobody cut her classes, nobody failed in them. In thirty years, she had five very talented students -- smart as all get out, tons of flair and voice in their work, capable of the deep engagement with art that signals to a teacher they could make a life of it and a living from it. I saw the work, I know.

Did anyone teaching an academic subject see that these boys were imaginative, bored, bright and at risk in a system in which orthodox sub-normality was the expected thing? No -- outside Mother's class, these were the troublemakers. No teacher paused to ask herself my mother's favorite question: "If I were the real 'troublemaker' here, how would I be making trouble for this child?"

This story ends expectedly. The boys left school at sixteen, never to return. All five, decades apart, died before they were twenty, of gang warfare, or in the course of committing violent crimes.

Posted by: Elatia Harris | Mar 29, 2011 10:49:59 AM

This article is frustratingly short. I want to know more about this boy's schooling and circumstances. Now, in the comments I learn that he has died, after I started to care about him in the micro-article. So, how did he die? Why is it a mystery? Better to post nothing at all than to leave so much hanging. If the purpose is to educate us about how these little boys are treated in school, I think we probably already had some idea of it and feel as powerless now to change it as we ever did...

Posted by: AlexiaM | Mar 31, 2011 4:08:55 AM

Kelly we love you

Posted by: tequaila | Mar 31, 2011 3:58:07 PM

@Alexia - I agree with you. I ran out of time and didn't do a good job telling the full story, but I promise to do soon.

And please know there is hope for changing things. The thing is, from my point of view, the first step is to get more people to understand the reality of what happens in inner-city schools, because right now we blame those kids and/or their families for not doing well academically. So I'm trying to tell stories that will do that. Next up (and in the next 2 films) I will focus more on solutions and feature the teachers and others who are fighting for change.

Thanks again -- pls check out www.teached.org and keep sharing feedback, I appreciate it all.

Posted by: Kelly Amis | Mar 31, 2011 4:19:59 PM

@Tee I love you too. xo

Posted by: Kelly Amis | Mar 31, 2011 4:20:20 PM

Sorry I was too quick with my comments. I was upset upon learning that that cute little guy had passed away. But I do look forward to reading more of your articles and I'm thankful that there are people like you who do more than wring their hands over all that is wrong in the world.

Posted by: alexiaM | Mar 31, 2011 9:58:50 PM

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